Learning To Enjoy This World

Learning To Enjoy This World

By R’ Ben Tzion Shafier

“And He does kindness to thousands of generations, to those whom He loves and those who guard His mitzvos.”

– Sh’mos 20:6

In the Aseres HaDibros we are told that Hashem pays back the wicked for four generations and the righteous for 2,000 generations. Rashi explains that the ratio of 2,000 to four comes out to be 500 to one. This teaches us that the measure of good to bad in the world is 500 to one.

This Rashi is very difficult to understand. If the Torah is teaching us that Hashem created the world with an operating principle that the good outweighs the bad by a measure of 500 to one, this doesn’t seem to be consistent with reality.

Granted life is good, but can anyone say that their “pleasures” outweigh their “pains” 500 to one? Five hundred to one means that the rough spots in life are so overshadowed by the enormity of good that they are almost nonexistent. For every headache I endure, I enjoy 500 times the pleasure. For every stomach cramp I suffer through, I benefit from 500 measures of delight. The problem is that this just isn’t the way life is. How do we reconcile this Rashi with reality?

A Perspective on Pleasure

If we study the world, we find many features that have no functional purpose, and if the world were created strictly from a practical standpoint, they would not be there. For example: tastes in food.

Food is something that we need to maintain our energy levels and health. If its only function were nutrition and nothing more, then all food should taste like soggy cardboard. Yet it doesn’t. There are so many variations, each with its own unique flavor, texture, and aroma.

Why did Hashem create food this way? Why not make it all the same? The reason is for our pleasure: so that eating, which we have to do, shouldn’t be a chore but should be delightful. Taste is something that Hashem added solely for our benefit – for us to enjoy.

It takes training and concentration to consciously enjoy the life that we lead.

An awful lot of thought went into creating the different foods that we eat. Rabbi Avigdor Miller zt”l once described an orange. When you peel an orange, you find wedges inside. If you look closely, each of these wedges is surrounded by a thin membrane. When you pull back the membrane, you see many tiny sacs. Inside each of those sacs is the juice of the orange. Why did Hashem created an orange in that manner, with thousands of little sacs? So that when you bite into the orange, the taste is released in a burst of flavor.

Hashem created those sacs so that there would be another dimension to our enjoyment. The sensation of eating an orange would be different without this feature. It still would have tasted delicious, but this is an additional aspect that Hashem wanted us to enjoy, so He designed the orange that way.

Did you ever wonder why most apples are red on the outside?

Hashem made apples red because it is nicer to look at, and that makes the process of eating an apple more pleasing. The presentation adds much to the enjoyment of the dish. So, Hashem designed foods to have eye appeal to enhance our experience of eating.

What happens when you bite into an apple? You don’t get that burst of flavor that you got when you bit into an orange. You get a crunch. Why is that? Why not design all fruit the same? The reason an apple is crunchy is because it is fun to crunch on food. So, when Hashem made apples, He designed the cells to form hard walls, so that when we bite into it, we get that crunch. It didn’t have to be that way. It was designed that way so that we should enjoy it.

What about aroma? Each of the assorted foods not only has varied tastes and textures, but markedly different smells, which contribute to our total enjoyment. When Hashem created food, He added this dimension of wonderful aromas to even further enhance our taste experience.

The food we eat comes in so many assorted flavors and textures, each one appealing to a different element of our tastes. Hashem pre-planned and created all of this for us to enjoy.

And this is but one example of countless features that Hashem created strictly for our enjoyment. Hashem created sights, sounds, textures, colors, depth, and so many other features in this glorious world so that our experience here should be more pleasure-filled. If the world was created for practical reasons only, all of this wouldn’t have to be. But Hashem put it all here for us to enjoy.

It Takes Training to Enjoy the Pleasures of This World

Yet how many times do we actually take the time to enjoy the foods that we eat? How much attention do we pay to the sights that we see? It takes training and concentration to consciously enjoy the life that we lead. If we do, we will see a tremendous amount of detail and concern put in for our benefit. And we will see a tremendous demonstration of the kindness that Hashem shows to man.

This seems to be what Rashi is saying. The ratio of 500:1 is accurate in this world. The problem isn’t the amount of pleasure in the world; the problem is that we lack the training to enjoy it.

When we learn to live with intention and use this world as it was designed to be used, we come to recognize the love that Hashem has for all of His creations, and we then lead a purposeful, pleasure-filled life.

Born and bred in Kew Gardens Hills, R’ Ben Tzion Shafier joined the Choftez Chaim Yeshiva after high school. Shortly thereafter he got married and moved with his new family to Rochester, where he remained in for 12 years. R’ Shafier then moved to Monsey, NY, where he was a Rebbe in the new Chofetz Chaim branch there for three years. Upon the Rosh Yeshiva’s request, he stopped teaching to devote his time to running Tiferes Bnei Torah. R” Shafier, a happily married father of six children, currently resides in Monsey.

 

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